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Messages (Combine Title) Review- The Inward Man: Spirit, Life, and God

This review is from 2 short clips of messages preached by Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. Have you ever stopped to wonder, "Who am I, really?" It's a question that goes deeper than our names, our jobs, or the roles we play.

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10/9/20254 min read

You Are Not Who You Think You Are: 4 Spiritual Truths About Your Real Self

Have you ever stopped to wonder, "Who am I, really?" It's a question that goes deeper than our names, our jobs, or the roles we play. Many of us struggle to find a stable sense of self, trying to define our existence by our physical bodies or in reference to the world around us. We feel like there must be more to us than just a collection of cells that gets older and weaker over time.

This feeling points to a fundamental problem with how we try to understand ourselves. We look for our identity in the temporary and the external, when the answer lies within. There is a profound reality to our being that transcends the physical world. This journey of discovery will challenge what you think you know about your own body, your mind, and even the very act of belief.

This article explores four key insights that challenge our conventional understanding of self. These ideas suggest that the real "you" is not who you see in the mirror, but something far more permanent and powerful.

Takeaway 1: You Aren't Your Body; You're a Spirit Living Inside It

The first and most foundational truth is that you are a spirit being. Your physical body is not your true identity; it is simply the "house" where the real you—your spirit—resides. As long as we identify primarily with our physical selves, we can never discover our true reality or purpose.

This concept draws a clear line between the "outward man" and the "inward man." The outward man is the body, which perishes—getting older, weaker, and even feeling broken and battered by life. The inward man, however, is your spirit—the core of your nature and the real you. This part of you is not subject to physical decay and can be renewed and strengthened even as the body ails. This shift in identity is powerful because it moves our sense of self from the temporary to the eternal. This frees us from the anxiety of aging and physical limitations, anchoring our value in something indestructible.

For which cause we faint not. For though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day.

Takeaway 2: Belief Isn't Mental—It's Spiritual

One of the most surprising ideas about our inner nature is that genuine belief does not originate in our minds or brains. We often think of faith as a mental exercise. However, from a spiritual perspective, these faculties are linked to the physical world—the brain relates to our physical senses, and the mind relates to our thoughts, emotions, and the intellectual world.

Belief, in its truest form, is an act of the spirit. This is why it's possible to believe in something you have never seen or touched. The Bible makes this clear:

For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness.

But what does the Bible mean by "the heart"? It's not the physical organ. Scripture itself defines this term precisely. In 1 Peter 3:4, the heart is described as "the hidden man," and in Romans 7:22, this same concept is called "the inward man"—the true, spiritual self hidden inside the body. Therefore, when the Bible says belief comes from the heart, it's referring to an act of our innermost being, our spirit.

Takeaway 3: The Reason for All Religion Is an Inner Sense of a "Greater One"

This understanding of our spiritual core helps explain another universal human experience: the innate sense that there is a "greater one." This inner awareness is the fundamental driver behind all the world's religions. At their core, these systems are an expression of humanity's deep-seated search for a relationship with God.

This universal quest for the divine is a powerful indicator of our spiritual nature. While we may not know how to find God, the search itself is programmed into us. This search doesn't always take the form of traditional religion; some people create a "religion" out of their job, their ambitions, or other life pursuits, turning them into an object of worship. This perspective reframes the global phenomenon of religion not as a set of cultural rules, but as a deeply personal and universal human quest to connect with our source.

Takeaway 4: You Needed The Creator to Introduce Himself to You

Once we recognize this universal, spiritual search for a "greater one," a logical question follows: Shouldn't that Creator introduce himself to us so we can understand our purpose? The answer is that He did. It was, however, up to the Creator to decide how to manifest himself, not for us to dictate the terms.

According to this view, the Creator knows what works for us because He made us. He chose to reveal himself to humanity in a way that we could recognize and understand: in the person of Jesus Christ. The significance of this point is profound. It suggests that true self-discovery and understanding our purpose are not things we can achieve on our own, in a vacuum. It requires a direct revelation from the one who brought us into being.

Conclusion: Who Are You, Really?

Ultimately, our true identity is not found in our physical bodies, our thoughts, or our emotions. It resides in the "inward man"—our spirit. This is the core of our being, the part of us that can connect with the eternal.

If the "real you" is your spirit, how might that change the way you see yourself and the world around you?

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